Pick your perfume and your partner's: how well they go together, the note that bridges them, who leads and how many sprays each.
Pick your perfume to see what your partner could wear, or pick both to see how well they go together.
The best pairs share one base note (vanilla, amber, musk, sandalwood) and open differently.
One of you wears the louder, warmer scent and the other something lighter. Never two heavy hitters in a closed room.
Work, the car and summer: fresh and quiet. Dinners, winter and formal evenings: warmer.